Thinking Out Loud: Musings, mantras, and what Iâm learning as I lead
The air had that thin edge this morning, the kind that wakes your face before the coffee does. I ran into Rick, who works at the coffee shop next door and regularly goes above and beyond to shovel the snow for the whole block.Â
Lately, weâve had longer exchanges as I pass him on my morning walks. Today he smiled and said, âLooks like weâre on the wake-up list again!â
I just stood there for a beat, spellbound by how simple and heavy that sounded.
âWhatâs that?â I said, caught off guard.Â
âNot everyone makes it through the night. But we made it on the wake-up list.âÂ
And then he grinned at me.Â
JFC. Thatâll make you appreciate the morning.Â
Thereâs a lot I donât control in life. Increasingly, it might feel like thereâs less and less that we can count on.Â
But there is a small country I do get to govern: the few minutes after I notice a tiny window of gratitude.
Most days feel like boulders flying down a hill. Calendars slot us in. Notifications herd us along. Itâs efficient, and it can be numbing.
Sometimes I move through all of it like a ghost in my own life, busy and barely touching anything. The motions keep happening; Iâm not quite happening with them.Â
But isnât life just the pursuit of normalizing and elevating moments of astonishment that we were on the âwake-up listâ?Â
Now, it might not be authentic for you to go around telling people, âHey, guess what, you didnât die in your sleepâ like Rick did, but thereâs something there in that bit of drama for everyone.Â
It takes courage to acknowledge whatâs right in front of you.Â
And let that be the life worth living.Â
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Whether youâre leading in your current role, exploring whatâs next, or navigating the space in between. I built Legacy League for the high performer who refuses to settle and is committed to a lifestyle of growth.
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On the Market: Strategic job search intel for high-intent candidates
If youâre someone who always needs to be doingâŚI see you. The job search can feel like a volume game. Apply. Interview. Network. Repeat. But at a certain point, more isn't the move. Depth is.
In last weekâs Leap Lab, one of our most driven candidates asked a smart question:
âWhen should I stop applying and just focus on whatâs already in motion?â
The answer? When you hit three to four active conversations across distinct stages, itâs time to rebalance.Â
At that point, your time becomes exponentially more valuable not in chasing new leadsâbut in closing existing ones.
When you have 3-4 active interviews in the pipeline, reallocate your time as follows:
Spend 60% on interview prep (donât wing itâwin it)
Spend 20% on high-interest roles
Spend 20% on networking
Why this works: The deeper your prep, the stronger your signal. Showing up with crisp stories, strategic thinking, and tailored responses turns you from âa qualified candidateâ into âa category of one.â
If youâre in motion: honor it. Build toward mastery, not burnout. If youâre early in the cycle: front-load the prep now so when momentum hits, youâre ready to sprint.
Sometimes the most strategic move isnât to do more. Itâs to do smarter.



